A particularly long holiday saw Florence break up a week before everyone else and get to enjoy nearly 3 and weeks of rest. Just what she needed after working so hard. Both big kids really had tried hard last term and made us proud with end of term reports so some fun was required. Of course we didn’t get away Covid free as it finally caught up with me but we did still have a great break despite me (and Gram) going down for some of it. Here’s what we got up to before we hit the ground today for the final term this year and the final term before Raffie, gulp, starts big school! He got his place at our local village primary and I want to sob thinking about him going to school every day so for now I’m focusing on all the fun we will have together this term and for the summer. Baby stepping into it! Here’s our Easter!
I see that you have taken all the comments off the EDP article about train travel. Can’t stand it when you are found out for being in the wrong but weren’t in your eyes! I thought you didn’t mind negative comments according to t but is site!
I’m afraid I’m not in charge of whether comments are published on the newspaper I write for, there is a team of moderators who work for Archant. If you would like to take your concerns to them then I’m sure they will be able to assist you with answers to your queries. I do however have full control over comments sent to me directly at my blog and I’d like to reply to your comment here. I absolutely do not shy away from difference of opinion and welcome any constructive argument. You say that I have been “found out for being in the wrong”/ Can you please elaborate? My column is factual and I have presented it with accuracy. I sat in First Class (something the guard was aware of) without a First class ticket because there were no available seats in Standard class, despite my having booked two and as I was feeding a small baby and with another infant, we did not feel safe either standing or sitting on the floor. It is common place for Greater Anglia to ensure the safety of their passengers but again, I don’t make their rules and would direct you to them if you have issue withe the ways they conduct their business. My children were not noisy, in fact quite the opposite as one was sleeping and breast feeding until about 15 minutes before we arrived at the end station, when she cried, I stood up to jiggle her back to sleep and that is when the two passengers, a man and a woman, summoned me over to explicitly, using bad language, tell me to shut my children up. I at no point raised my voice or lowered myself to being unpleasant but engaged with them to explain how unpleasant their conversation directed at me was. I was, at this point, told to go away, again with the use of offensive language. At this point I decided I wasn’t going to simply walk away but I would stand up for myself by continuing to try to discuss the matter with them, only at this point I informed them I’d be filming the rest of the conversation due to their bad language. I wanted to try to educate them on politeness and the value of understanding you don’t know someone else’s situation and I pointed out that my children had not actually been disruptive in any way. They then told me I didn’t have a first class ticket and that was their issue. The female traveller went to see the guard but of course came back without his support. I then was looked after by other passengers who had witnessed their unpleasant language and abuse of my children and I and one walked me to the gate where a police officer came to help me as I was visibly distressed. At this point she took a statement and told me I was within my rights to share the video, clearly displaying their antisocial behaviour, and in fact she encouraged it as it would give them more chance of circulating the couple’s image enabling them to make contact and speak to the pair about their behaviour. I hope this clears up your concerns. Thanks so much for reading and I hope that you continue to do so. I welcome all feedback as long as it is directed in a pleasant manner and will continue to do so whether opinions are in agreement with my own or otherwise. Please take care for now and enjoy your day. Ruth
I see that you have taken all the comments off the EDP article about train travel. Can’t stand it when you are found out for being in the wrong but weren’t in your eyes! I thought you didn’t mind negative comments according to t but is site!
I’m afraid I’m not in charge of whether comments are published on the newspaper I write for, there is a team of moderators who work for Archant. If you would like to take your concerns to them then I’m sure they will be able to assist you with answers to your queries. I do however have full control over comments sent to me directly at my blog and I’d like to reply to your comment here. I absolutely do not shy away from difference of opinion and welcome any constructive argument. You say that I have been “found out for being in the wrong”/ Can you please elaborate? My column is factual and I have presented it with accuracy. I sat in First Class (something the guard was aware of) without a First class ticket because there were no available seats in Standard class, despite my having booked two and as I was feeding a small baby and with another infant, we did not feel safe either standing or sitting on the floor. It is common place for Greater Anglia to ensure the safety of their passengers but again, I don’t make their rules and would direct you to them if you have issue withe the ways they conduct their business. My children were not noisy, in fact quite the opposite as one was sleeping and breast feeding until about 15 minutes before we arrived at the end station, when she cried, I stood up to jiggle her back to sleep and that is when the two passengers, a man and a woman, summoned me over to explicitly, using bad language, tell me to shut my children up. I at no point raised my voice or lowered myself to being unpleasant but engaged with them to explain how unpleasant their conversation directed at me was. I was, at this point, told to go away, again with the use of offensive language. At this point I decided I wasn’t going to simply walk away but I would stand up for myself by continuing to try to discuss the matter with them, only at this point I informed them I’d be filming the rest of the conversation due to their bad language. I wanted to try to educate them on politeness and the value of understanding you don’t know someone else’s situation and I pointed out that my children had not actually been disruptive in any way. They then told me I didn’t have a first class ticket and that was their issue. The female traveller went to see the guard but of course came back without his support. I then was looked after by other passengers who had witnessed their unpleasant language and abuse of my children and I and one walked me to the gate where a police officer came to help me as I was visibly distressed. At this point she took a statement and told me I was within my rights to share the video, clearly displaying their antisocial behaviour, and in fact she encouraged it as it would give them more chance of circulating the couple’s image enabling them to make contact and speak to the pair about their behaviour. I hope this clears up your concerns. Thanks so much for reading and I hope that you continue to do so. I welcome all feedback as long as it is directed in a pleasant manner and will continue to do so whether opinions are in agreement with my own or otherwise. Please take care for now and enjoy your day. Ruth
Hello,
Can I publish a guest post on your site?
Please email Ruth at [email protected] for all collaboration enquiries. Thanks, Helen